Heartache is a hard ache. It weighs heavily within for a long time and makes it bitterly hard to forgive. But when you let it have you and you focus on how you feel and how you're really doing -without regard for other intruding thoughts and people- you free yourself. When you stop spreading yourself thin, discontinue the meaningless and fruitless efforts to change the way another person sees you and just fall into the comfortableness of loving who you truly are, then you forget why you wanted to worry and jump about so much before. The people who really care will stick with you. They will hold on and explain things to you and strive to retain your trust. They will tell you what worries them, what they want, what they hope for and the trust you share with them will fill in all the empty places; it will make it so that even when you're saying nothing at all you feel at ease in their company.
Those are the people who matter. Those are the people who need your focus. So much energy is wasted on worrying about the people who oppress and hurt us, the people who we try to impress, the people who we think we need to be acquainted with. It is important to love and be kind to all people, but it does us no good to throw a lot of effort into making something work with those certain souls who we just don't fit with. If something is right, it will flow. Even if it's hard, it will still flow to a certain degree.
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